What are reason a girl would not want to date a nice stranger?

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  1. xmoses

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    What are reasons a girl would not want to date a nice stranger?

    I'm darkskin black and i get reject alot by outside race women. Not to sound arrogant but I'm considered great looking for my race because alot of girls in my race like me and make moves. However i don't have same response with outside race women. The problem is i'm not attracted to my race so i don't want to approach them.

    What are the reasons a women would reject me if not because of my race? I always think it's because of race.
     
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  3. Gyro Gearloose

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    because you are spoiled with your race thing...fck race..

    and what is a nice stranger ? i dunno any woman who did date strangers !...and fck blind dates...be good human be like you are and go out often..you will met ppl...
    and dont force things...if you to much into finding someone you be on the lost site not the cool site...woman dont like lost men
    and when you put on the race victim on top , its a no go

    in EUROPE using the word race for humans alone is a no go ....we all ppl bleeding red...no breeds
    are u in the US ?
     
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  4. reliefsan

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    we are all the same on the inside :bow:
     
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    It could be because of race? Everybody has their own taste in what a partner could be to them. We form a lot of this when we are young. People might not have enough positive experiences to be open to dating outside their race. Society plays a huge role in that. If positive change happens in our world hopefully your children and grandchildren will have a different outlook on who their partner will be.

    Family and religion play a huge role in dating outside of the community. I have Asian friends who talk about how their family has shamed them in dating other Asian cultures.

    Sadly It may be another thing that society has given you the disadvantage of because of your race. In the end, don't beat yourself up over it know there are women who are open-minded and open to the option with you.
     
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    I also wanted to add white girls aren't all that they are "cracked" up to be.

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  7. typical-love

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    Hmm, I'm not sure. Maybe a bunch of sweaty, basement dwelling aspiring audio nerds could help you find the secret answer??? I'll definitely stick around to find out!
     
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    Try being a friend first. If it goes nowhere romantically, it's still a win.
    Also it is not always about race though sometimes it can be. It is often about personal preference.
    As examples.....Some people like brown hair, some blonde, some red so on and so forth. Some women and men prefer darker skin, some prefer lighter skin, some like either. When all is said and done, it is what is inside that counts for longevity. When the honeymoon is over if two people find they no longer have much in common and the physical aspects have all had their test runs, if you do not like each other as people it's the beginning of the end.

    Try and be a friend first as I mentioned because it is a good way to work out whether you like them as a person and vice-versa.
    If it's a booty call then that is totally personal preference and the above paragraph is irrelevant.
     
  9. LordSin

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    The answer is kind of in the question - nobody dates 'strangers'. You have to get to know them first. Also, nobody is obligated to go out with anyone just because they were asked. You can blame it on race if you like but the simplest answer may just be they aren't attracted to you. Either way, a person's sexual/dating preferences are nobody's business but theirs.
     
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    if you got stuck with your race then you go by car and race another man in car race, it is possible that a girl race is different if driving another race. When in doubt ask mj2000 about chord progression for your race, you can turn a nice girl race with a major chord in a ugly girl race, just invert your minor race ABCDBCDCA to a simple CCDBADDEA
     
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  11. FrequencyModulation

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    why males always assume that women are automatically interested in starting relationships
     
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    you're not the guitarist? :rofl:
     
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    in 5 text lines you repeated the word "race" 7 times: maybe there is a psychological barrier inside you that you are mirroring on girls: Could it be that the one biased is yourself?
     
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    troll thread LOL
    no "great looking" "darkskin black" who gets "a lot" of black girls, goes on like this bum!:rofl:
     
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    Show us a photo of yourself so we know what we have to work with as well as a short bio. It's just like trying to troubleshoot a hardware/software problem, we have to grok the variables before a viable solution can be formulated.

    I myself have dated lots of woman from various races and have found that a woman is a woman is a woman. And Vivian who was a black housekeeper for our family that looked after us after my mom split, said to me when seeing her accidentally naked when I was just a lad of 13, (actually the first naked woman that I had ever set eyes upon, all 250 pounds of her)..."All the pussy's pink!". She was right. Under the skin we're all alike.
     
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    I'm not handsome, but I'm very rich and women of all colors line up to get me.
    But I don't have time to waste with them: I have to download and test the new drumkits from AZ
     
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    Get used to it. Most white women are attracted to white guys. It's the same vice versa with black women.
     
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    Maybe it has nothing to do with race, maybe they’re not interested in you because you’re a cornball. “Identity relationships” Is where you’ll lose most.
     
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    @xmoses
    Do you have a friend in Philippines who really like to use Roland cloud?
     
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    Louder for the ones in the back.
     
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