Do you know girls and women well enough? Do you know what goes on in their minds? Do you know what girls talk about in private with each other?
The reason I ask this is because most of the songwriters are men, and 50% of the listeners are girls. I've listened to a few private recordings from women's and girls' groups. Their intellectual space and the things they talk about unbrokenly are not there in boys' groups. Unlike boys, women become another person in private settings. They only show each other their inner selves in those groups. They talk about things that if you listen to those recordings, you would think that you didn't know the girls until that time.
After all, is it possible to make songs for girls and women without knowing their insides?

 

Well you can't stop people from talking private things in private. And yes those things are private and you didn't know about. This applies to men too.

But to answer your last question: Just make a song about money

 

Last edited: Jun 4, 2025

Of course you can make songs for and about females without knowing them.
Sometimes we write the best songs about OURSELVES, while not knowing ourselves.
People don't want songs of everything they know already.
They want songs that reveal something they had not fully known.

Some of the best use short phrases that may be totally independent, but evoke something .. a feeling from just a few words. (Think Coldplay) Less is more.

You can't always get what you want...
but if you try, sometimes..
you get what someone left on the sink in the downstairs bathroom.

 

FOSTER 2.0

 

Spoiler: Source: TwatGPT

Girls often talk about a wide range of topics in private, including relationships, personal struggles, and shared experiences as women. These conversations can involve discussing men, fashion, gossip, family, and their feelings about various life situations. They may also share advice, support, and insights related to work, education, and personal growth.
Here's a more detailed look at some common topics:
Personal and Relationship Matters:

• Dating and Relationships:
  They may share stories about dating experiences, both positive and negative, and discuss current relationships, including their hopes and fears.
• Men:
  Girls often talk about men, their crushes, and their opinions on certain types of men or relationships.
• Personal Struggles:
  They may discuss personal challenges, including insecurities, fears, and concerns related to work, school, or other aspects of their lives.
• Shared Experiences:
  They can share insights and support related to their shared experiences as women, such as navigating a male-dominated world or dealing with specific challenges.

Social and Cultural Topics:

• Fashion and Beauty:
  They often discuss trends, beauty routines, and their personal styles.
• Gossip:
  Like any group, girls may gossip about things happening in their lives or share news about others.
• Pop Culture:
  They can discuss movies, TV shows, music, and other aspects of pop culture.
• Current Events:
  They may talk about current events and their opinions on various social and political issues.

Personal Growth and Hobbies:

• Career and Education:
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  They may discuss career aspirations, school projects, and share advice related to their education or work.
• Hobbies and Interests:
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  They can talk about their hobbies, interests, and passions.
• Travel:
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  They might discuss travel plans, favorite destinations, or share travel stories.
• Books:
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  They can discuss books they've read, recommend new ones, and share their thoughts on different authors.

In Essence:
The topics girls talk about in private are diverse and depend on their individual interests, age, and relationship with each other. These conversations often involve sharing personal experiences, offering support, and connecting over shared interests.

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Yes that's difficult, I can't imagine what's going on in a girl's or woman mind ur not the only one.

 

Why does a person have to become a different person in private? Why would someone hide their original opinions in public or express them in a different way, but become their own reality in private?

 

Congratulations! You have taken your first step on the road to incel. Enjoy your trip.

 

The need by some people to pseudo-scientifically study women like some kind of unclassified Mariana trench deep sea cucumber is pretty funny.

 

The internet is similar to life in that way.

Some see the internet as a place to hide who they are.
Some see it as a place to show who they are.

Some see to as a place to show how to hide the pickle.

 

First of all, women are amazing: they are walking, talking, Kali-like Goddesses among us men. They are our mothers, grandmothers, sisters, aunts, cousins, and dearly beloved friends and wives - and we owe them our life, infinite gratitude and utmost respect.

The above firmly established, it's with creative license that I say this:

• All women want is to get stuff, to get stuffed, prove their mothers wrong, and make their daddy proud.

It's really not that different from us: men love their toys (phones, headphones, flat screens, cars, yachts, jets, studio gear, etc), women love their toys too. Men love their expensive watches and designer/collector/handmade shoes and suits, women love their jewelry, their Jimmy Choos and Louboutins, and their designer/vintage ABCDs (Armani, Balenciaga, Chanel, Dior). They want to get stuff, and to get stuffed.

If you can facilitate those two needs/desires, and listen while they shoot their daily (verbal) load, and cook and clean and play with the kids - you are the Pimp Daddy of all Pimp Daddies.

• This is "what goes on in their minds:" the five senses (to see and be seen, to speak and be heard, to touch and be touched, etc) just like you and me, and everyone else we know, and everyone else they know. It's not rocket science.

As far as "what girls talk about in private with each other," I'm often the only guy in a group of several female friends, and their friends. They talk/worry about money first and foremost. Always. Money, Money, Money. As teens, as tweens, as college students, as grad students, as employees, as girlfriends, as fiancees, as wives, as mothers, as grandmothers. Money, Money, Money. No different from you and me, really, except we also talk about instruments, and studio gear, and contracts and deals, and sports (for many of us).

Money is especially on their minds getting started in life (rent is expensive in most big cities in the world now, as is furniture, and potentially, pet food and veterinarian bills - a fantastic racket if I ever knew one), and when there's no significant other stepping in to facilitate getting stuff, and getting stuffed.

The getting stuff, and getting stuffed is particularly on their minds in this day and age where their lives are under instagrammable scrutiny, and where their sense of self worth is directly proportional to 1) the amount of stuff and stuffing they're getting; 2) the number of followers or scrutinizers; and 3) the number of other women made insanely jealous and less self worthy by 1) and 2).

And yes, it is true that women like to share very intimate details about their (male) partner's anatomy and other characteristics with their girlfriends (and guy friends and boyfriends too, which is how I know). And yes, they cheat. A lot. A lot more than most men do (a lot less than a handful of men do - hence the discrepancy in % often at the crux of statistical misconceptions), and yet, they discuss such glorious instances with their girlfriends (and guy friends and boyfriends too, which is how I know).

But all those things are inconsequential in the context of songwriting. I was lucky enough to study Lyric writing with Pat Pattison at Berklee - not because I wanted to write lyrics (I don't), but because as a record producer, I want/ed to be able to step in and doctor or help rewrite a verse, a TB, a chorus - so I learned that, much like a poem, you can write about something (a story) that happened to you, or that happened to someone else (that you saw happen, or that you heard happen - doesn't matter, if it's a good story). You can write about Love, about Loss, about Joy (Isn't She Lovely), about Racism, about Civil Rights heroes (Happy Birthday)... you can even write about Superstition.

So you don't need to "understand" or "listen to those recordings" of "the girls" to write great lyrics. Have a read at Hotel California: try to figure out what they're about, or what most of the lyrics of the 70s were about. There's a lot of room for interpretation, let's just say.

Lyrics are not just words on a piece of paper (remember paper?); lyrics are sounds (phonems) and sounds are energy. Try to sing a different lyric, different sounds, to your favorite few songs. See, feel how weird they sound with those different words, and phonems?

To sum it up: women and men have 15% different biology (different enough that it should be a separate branch of medicine), but the human psyche is the human psyche, no matter the ethnicity, religion, language or gender. The only difference to fe/male psyche, and it's a major difference, is that baby girls are breastfed by their mother, not by the opposite gender, as are baby boys. There's a book that explains this in detail, if you're interested - but it's nothing to do with lyrics. Bottom line: write a good song, with good sounds, perhaps good lyrics if you're lucky, and everyone (regardless of their gender) will enjoy, and want to listen to this song - again, and again.

 

bruh, I don't even know what's going on in my mind.

 

Would someone possibly tell me what is all this Foster about?

 

A well known long time member who likes to make troll/satire posts here

 

If they were private, how'd you get to hear them? Or perhaps I shouldn't ask ?:O

 

What too much time in the studio does to a person...

 

I recommend meeting some and listening to them