can u please explain "without anyone thinking you are weird" thanks!

 

the best thing is having a woman with you in a stable relationship
You answered it yourself

 

FL Studio: Big tiddy goth gf
Ableton: Petite blonde gf
Cubase&Reaper: Blonde busty big assed gf
Cakewalk: Average gf
Magix Music Maker: Kidnapping a crackwhore and locking her up in your basement

 

Disagree with this. One of the best seeds of music inspiration is life experience

 

And those of us who use S1 get the "hand gf" ?

 

I think Studio One might be "the super freaky gf"
Bitwig "The petite brunette gf who happens to be Ableton's cousin and wants to make her jealous".
Logic "choosy gf with expensive taste".
Tracktion "either a booty call (free version) or you just have to work for it (paid version)"
Bandlab "like Cakewalk. A lot."

 

I preferred drinking alcohol to having a meaningful relationship.
When I quit drinking I didn't have to pay alimony

 

It was not meant to be genderist if that’s what your thinking, the simple facts are, due to rather unfortunate run in on my part with the Big C in my early 30s we never got round to having kids. We are both now in our late 50s and enjoy a outlook and style of life people in their mid 20s might do. We have never really grown up and still act like we have just fallen madly in love… I guess it’s not unknown but it may be regarded by some as a bit weird. I guess what I’m trying to say is when you find a partner that can get you through the toughest times and you don’t lose sight of makes what each of you happy and work on having a laugh and enjoying life together, relationships do work.

 

Someone to read your Mail.

 

We are polygamic beings and there is no point in suppressing our nature. Also, if you want to be peaceful without a woman grumble all day with no reason because her hormones are in a party, you have to follow man's nature! Especially if you want to produce music .... There are millions of women out there to do your job and have fun, why stick to one ...??!!

 

As the song lyrics say: "Love is a battlefield" At times
Sometimes it needs some battles to come out of the "friendship only zone" back into "friendship plus zone". This is in other words the Pro version and harder to handle

A really nasty question, but one that makes it very clear where we stand is:
If the other person were to die today and we had to live the rest of our lives without her or him, how would we feel about that?

Sometimes a big crisis is the best thing that can happen to us.
Because all the dirt that has accumulated suddenly doesn't matter anymore.

This brings me to the conclusion that it is not so much the good times that keep us together, but the problems we have managed to overcome with eachother that count.

 

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I completely agree with many of you: if your passion is music (the place is occupied), then few women can accept it. (sooner or later relationships become a challenge)

 

Men need just four things in life to survive: Food, shelter, pussy and strange pussy.

The problem with the whole 'strange pussy' business is that you can go for very long periods without any, or having to settle for spending time with really obnoxious women to get any pussy at all. Because in the early stages, they tend to conceal their true nature in the hope of tricking you into wanting to spend time with them.

Consequently, the only meaningful arrangement is having a main partner, supplemented by regular side pieces who'll come and go over time.

As somebody who has just celebrated their ruby wedding anniversary (yes, that's forty years married -- to a divorce lawyer) I can attest to the viability of this as a workable arrangement. But your primary partner needs to not be a clingy, needy bitch who can't do anything for herself. Those women are a recipe for disaster.

 

I think many people here confuse sex with love. They are two different things, at least for me. You can feel love with a casual person, or you can feel horny. And as musicians. Is it the same to compose a song to a woman who turns you on sexually? to the partner of your life? to the nostalgia of when you are separated for a while?
I don't know if I could talk about better or worse. But many of the songs I've done and that I like, are based on long relationship loves and frustrations to casual loves. Well maybe one or two songs that have been moving like " I wanna f*ck oh oh " " I wanna f*ck you oh oh ".

 

to me? Continuity.

why?

Its complicated to explain but goes something like this: divide your life like multi episode books.
without dominating traumatic experiences, The first is probably the part you have no memory from till (basic/elementry)school.
then you have some chapters divided in every school you did after that.
Then the thread simply (at least for me) becomes books titled by the relationship(s) I have been in.

The last book is becoming a big pill, it's about the past 14 years.
And I found out for myself that thus far, big books has been the most enjoyable too me.