Whats the best thing/s about having a woman with you in a stable relationship instead of just aimlessly go on dates etc and not settling down?

also do you think this following question could help someone reach a conclusion to the query above

"Do you want a different friend each day or a friend u known from childhood kind of thing"?

or its not relating?

whats ur opinion

thanks!

 

Last edited: Sep 7, 2022

its useful

 

for starters you won't worry about going on dates aimlessly, you go on dates w someone you enjoy if ur w someone you like. Going on a bunch of dates is basically just looking for yourself in someone else that contrasts you in the right way anyways. If you are more dopamine chasing , the highs will be rewarded through novelty of meeting someone new. Depends on your psychology/what your main driving factor is. If it is creating a business , going on dates w randoms is counter productive.

 

can you further explain? thanks

 

You don't have to waste time looking for someone to bust your balls.

 

Man was not meant to exist without woman and vice versa. Man and Woman were meant to compliment each other. The hard part is finding one that will compliment you. Pick the wrong one and it'll complicate you instead of compliment you.

 

Go on enough dates and eventually you will meet someone who will wreck your life.

 

Easy access to boobs. I like boobs.

 

does it have to be "wreck your life"

there must be examples where that didn't happen right?

 

There are people that do not have a desire to make children and will not get it either.
The desire to make children comes from the desire to give something to someone.
The very most people that do not want to make children (and therefore do not need "a stable relationship") do know by themselve, that they have nothing to give.

 

sansom 2.0?

 

kind of still 1.0 different nick

 

if it didn't happen it's not the one, but even if it happens, still doesn't mean it's the one. it is that tricky.

 

In the animal kingdom with bears it is simpler, they meet to produce a
bear cub for the preservation of the species and then they disperse.
The common ground between man and woman is sex.

 

Last edited: Sep 6, 2022

is this some kind of another "which DAW is the best" thread?

 

You´ll lean how to accept another flawed person as yourself and you will know how it feels to be accepted with all you flaws. You will grow and pass trough different stages with that person that involves even measurable brain chemistry changes and you´ll adapt to them and you´ll let your brain be also modified. You´ll experience the evolution of love trough time, from the hormonal adrenalinical explosion that we are wired to experience in other to hold our partner and sucesfully reproduce to the calmed oxytocin coasts of having a long lasting relation, that also involves sex, with another human being, as equals . You´ll learn how not to be selfish, how to give ground, and how to not give up on somenone, even trough the worsts emotional crysis that everyone of us experience from time to time.

These are the best parts.

You want also to know the worsts ones?

You´ll have a lot of less time to produce music. So keep that in mind because it´s a hard decision.

 

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If two single people buy a small pizza each it's more expensive than if they had just bought one large. Yet the amount of pizza is the same.

 

Experience shows that the longer a relationship lasts, the less love there is and the more mutual criticism it is.

If you don't manage to see each other's quirks as lovable idiosyncrasies soon, the end is near.

So those who do not want to have the necessary strenuous and nerve-wracking arguments or where the relationship with a woman sex is the only common ground as @BEAT16 said, should perhaps rather take a professional. In the end more problem-free and surprisingly also cheaper.

But If you hold out, however, you have a buddy after a long time, with whom you have gone through highs and lows. This brings the relationship to another level where sex is only one part.

 

Last edited: Sep 6, 2022

No
It's even worse

 

Do you think this question is kind of the same way of thinking to reach a good conclusion "Do you want a different friend each day or a friend u known from childhood kind of thing" or it doesn't relate?