is there a company that helps release your song kind of more properly than just throwing it on youtube? without pushing up numbers or anything cheating. Just some more formal/proper release.

 

plenty distributors which handle Spotify uploads for example

 

You might be looking for independent music publishing companies like Distrokid or similar.
Pay them a certain amount per month/year and as far as I know, they'll take care of publishing your music to all kinds of different platforms and taking care of copyright things for you as well.